Repair a conversation after frustration
Repair a conversation after frustration
If you spoke sharply, return to the conversation promptly. Name the behaviour you want to correct without blaming the other person for your reaction. Keep the acknowledgement specific and avoid adding a justification that cancels it out.
For example: “I interrupted and raised my voice. That made the conversation harder. I would like to restart and hear your concern.” Then address the original issue using facts and questions. Repair does not remove accountability for the work; it creates a better way to discuss it.
A workplace example
You cut a colleague off while discussing a missed milestone. The delivery issue still matters, but the conversation needs a reset so both people can discuss it productively.
Try this in practice
- Acknowledge your own behaviour.
- Invite the person to finish their point.
- Return to the work and agree a next step.
What can you say that takes responsibility without adding blame?
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